He's growing up.

My son has been deluged with study and soccer practice since he entered junior high school. He has tried to make some time for himself, but sometimes it didn't work well.

I am not sure if his super busy days causedthe following problem, but he often developed a skin rash on his body. After he had soccer practice, in particular.
In the middle of this month, I took him to see a doctor and she told him not to play games for a while. Since then, he has practiced juggling with a soccer ball or had core exercises instead.
I am not familiar with soccer and don't try to butt into his practice. However, it seems I have poked my nose into his affairs.

The other day, I vented my frustration I had bottled up. At that time, I told about my son's matters from my point of view. I have to admit that I was a backseat driver. He might have thought that he shouldn't tell me his thought because I was emotional. He wrote his thought and gave it to me.
After reading it, I felt terrible about myself. He wasn't immature but I was. He is thinking about his affairs in his own way. I saw his great growth. I thought he was still young but actually he was growing up. I fully realized that his decision should come first and I watch over.

It might be the time to let go of him...



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Author: VibrantRose TOEIC 935 (2018.4) TESOL認定講師